After getting catfished by another alleged dominatrix, she agreed on a day's notice to an OTK spanking for my birthday. This was very gracious as she understandably expects more notice normally.... but again it was my BIRTHDAY!
It was wonderful. We had a good conversation that built some comfort. It's always good to know she is a real person.
She is very very petite but also quite savage... a genuine sadist.
If you've never been beaten by a legitimate sadist who understands subspace it's a real experience. I was dancing on the edge of my safeword for almost an hour. After that I was in subspace and just wanted to massage her which she allowed.
Downsides:
She has been around the scene for awhile, so her faux leather pants were showing some wear. It made being entranced by her ass a bit less easy.Her arm got tired during OTK. Not unexpected but a little disappointing.She made an unrealistic threat to "throw (me) out on the street without my clothes" if I didn't take enough beating. I could see how other people could find that hot, but it just didn't work for me.
Upsides:
Genuine personGenuine sadistGreat little dungeonSo damned hotGreat communicationGood aftercare
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